If we get any positive thought which matches our "Original Sanskar" at birth (our Atma Soul which is pure and divine) then this is defined as true Spirituality.
Detachment means awareness that I am separate from the Body, Role & Responsibility. We then see things in the right perspective, take accurate decisions and not suffer pain. Let us be aware – I the Soul am playing the role of a parent, Spouse and professional and whatever may be the role –the personality of the Actor should be the personality of peace, love and wisdom should reflect in every role.
Why is it that we easily remember a daily soap series on TV but if after attending a satsang or spiritual class –we fail to remember much?
Unless you are a spiritual leader or very active in spirituality daily –majority of population fall in the category whereby they can easily remember some film or TV soap series even if it was shown a week back. But when it comes to trying to remember a satsang we attended or a spiritual programme seen for brief period -we fail to recall much.
Yet today this is much needed just like food we feed our body we need to feed our mind and intelligence. Most people have some sort of fear about Spiritualism as if it is alienated and prefer to tread on middle waters to play safe meaning they attend the satsang or some rituals performed either for the sake of it without understanding any deep meanings or keep society happy by attending for few minutes and eager to get home quickly. People in this category are what is called "mode of passion" meaning they are too attached to sense gratification.
The problem however in majority of cases is that we are too attached to our body and material desires and relationships in society apart from daily work and you rather de-stress watching a film or TV which is fine for some periods but sometimes it get so excessive that this turns into wasteful energy also and then like a couch potato you begin to also experience health problems.
As an example on food –on a plate if there was some tasty items and a small piece of fruit along with it –our natural pre-coded brain will go for the tasty snacks not fruit because we like the taste of snacks. Because of this taste we remember and like and often crave for it also similar to entertainment channels.
For Spirituality, a taste needs to be developed at first to understand any concept at basic level first if you are to understand your inner soul and experience the process whereby slowly slowly you listen to someone who is spiritually elevated take the information, read some lines and most important try to use it daily to gradually develop the taste and understand the power of your Soul and focus on not depleting it.
Why do we need Spirituality?
If we remain in the mode of ignorance and passion all our life –then your destiny is for sure going to be in debit as far as your karmic account is concerned after your next birth. Some people probably don't care about this concept meaning enjoy this life who cares about the next one –you are not around to see it. These people live in mode of ignorance.
At certain ages, we all go through phases of age and what is important at any phase is to realise the mode of goodness and what this really means. Other articles on this topic have explored in details so you are encouraged to read those also from the website.
There are few things to remember –Listen and take in information and digest to create a belief system and most important is to use it and experience it. Doing this will form your Sanskar but remember Sanskar is never permanent.
Someone asked a question –How do we know what the benefit of Spirituality is? You will know when someone says bad things about you and you did not feel bad or react and your mind was stable and this is the result of Spirtuality as you use sanskar daily.
Here is another example: If some of our white clothes get a stain –why do we immediately rush to remove it. In the same way our Aatma needs cleansing also slowly and gradually but daily follow this process and the result will be Soul power increases because you attach more importance to this process than material entanglements.
We have MAAN – Mind (Our thought creations) and we have BUDHI (Intelligence and decision making power and we have our Sanskar (Action we perform). So here is an equation MAAN + BUDHI = SANSKAR
But there all the time all three need to be in Sync as a complete package to experience full benefit.
Today we all have choices to make. If our Aatma gets the right diet just like our body gets and it too will get energy. So the combination of the right diet + Application will result in a successful and a purposeful life. You can be successful but whether you have a meaningful or purposeful life is something else.
The end result you are looking for in developing some taste of Spiritualism is that your soul file which is forgotten in your sub-conscious state and lying at the bottom of tray, starts to rise as priority work load and as there are so many files around you to disturb you but by attaining some Spiritualism your file will move up the hierarchy from bottom pile and you start to see some results so your Soul power increases not deplete in its energy and original form
If you start to believe in this learning process then all you need to do is Just take care of yourself and have faith in it.